Musings: Happy Mother’s Day!

Musing: Happy Mother’s Day!

Happy Mother’s Day to the countless mothers I personally known, have met and have admired — and of course, Happy Mother’s Day to my hero, my mom.

Earlier this year, my world was thrown for a loop when Mom learned that she had uterine cancer. While a fairly treatable cancer with a high success rate, there are massive racial and class-based disparities: white women have a much higher survival rate than their Black counterparts — mainly due to inequities in health care access. After a couple of delays, she finally was able to have a hysterectomy to treat it last week. Of course, because of COVID-19, I couldn’t be there with her and that filled me wit a deep anguish that I still feel today; but it’s Mother’s Day — and I’m glad she’s still here with me.

Mom has also shown me how to survive the most difficult and uncertain of times with dignity, strength and resolve — even while facing cancer. So Happy Mother’s Day, mom.

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This is an old photo but this one is of me and mom at Brooklyn Bowl during an Escort set, I believe.